What it feels like to be a girl- SPEAK OUT

believe in women and help em’ out ❤

Well that’s something which is never gonna please me. But wait, you didn’t ask me what’s never gonna please me? Being a girl? Or being a girl who’s being left out and who’s being the second choice i.e the ”BACKUP” friend when it comes to her family and friends in comparison to her brother or a guy friend?

I’d love to talk about it; the Misogynistic concept 

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When I was just 16 years old, I unknowingly became a female preacher. I had a debate with my father for something that just bloomed my mind when he reacted to it. You guys wont imagine it somehow made me angry and i felt downhearted 😥

It started like this: ”daughter, I think you should learn how to cook and how to do dishes and pots so that you can help your mom plus kitchen is a place where women are meant to be”

I remember at that spur of the moment, I don’t wanna mess up because I had no one to support me in this matter but I promised to myself that no matter what I’m going to raise my voice against that. This is something I’d love to say that: A women’s place is wherever she wants to be so yeah help em’ out even in the kitchen because that’s where you belong too ❤

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So, believe me or not, its in our cultures and traditions that women should not compete with men but is that a true sense of what we should go for? It takes an enormous amount of willful denial-ism not to see that women are free-minded and creative beings just as much as men are. I think one thing that will help is undoing the ties that adhere people falsely, the false sense of moral obligation which is keeping women with abusers and making men reluctant to try to educate, and when I say this I mean to really educate young men not to participate in an obtain rape culture.

But the best part is, its becoming really obvious that women aren’t inferior to men at least in masculine-coded pursuits. I’ve heard people saying that she’s a girl so she is going to be a doctor or a teacher but not a pilot or an engineer… Like why? Who are you to take decisions for her life, its her life and I think we should give that complete freedom to her so that she can choose whatever she wants JUST LIKE HER BROTHER..
When we talk about power relations- that’s something which seems to be different challenge altogether so umm yeahh when people are attached to positions they believe are their birthright, they get huge amounts of repercussion. Its when men starts thinking that women are taking opportunities and privileges away from em’ that’s where they think women are challenging male dominance which isn’t the fact and they get backlash. But we’ve to deal with that right? Women cannot — and should not — internalize patriarchal values and give and give and give until women are nothing.

We need to change that misogynistic mindsets and that’s how when women can surpass them without having wronged them.

In the end I’d like to say instead of deflecting start defending guys 🙂

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I tried being a hair stylist for one day & this is what happened…

Okay, so here’s a blog for the patooties out there who’ve been requesting me to tell em’ how to curl their hair without using a curler. OHH YASSSSS *_* You heard it right I’d be sharing this with you guys in this bloggg…

Well that’s a lot of hustle and bustle at the same moment in making that hairdo but a sturdy one can for real make you feel good about that hard endeavor. OMG! I’m super excited to share this with you guys ❤

So, without further reduce let’s get on with this blog 🙂

What you’ll need?

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Well I’d say you don’t need a lot of things to assemble your hair. A lot of bobby pins and a spray gun so that you can work out straightforwardly. Fairly, I do have straight hair and I for sure am in love with the curls whether they’re loose ones or highlighted chunky curls ❤ ❤ Here’s a picture of what you’re into,

EITHER THIS :

 

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OR THAT:

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Okay, so all you need to do is:

1- divide your hair into two equal sections

2- now select a very small section of your hair for the first curl from that half section of hair which you’ve already divided

3- next, roll that strand of hair which you’ve taken for the curl all around your finger

4- and pin that up with two bobby pins so as to secure them completely

5- repeat the step with the rest of your hair and sleep overnight

It’ll look like this:

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DAY 2:

WAKEEEEE UPPPPP DOLLIESSSS ❤ YOU’RE ALL READY, JUST NEED TO UNPIN THOSE STRANDS AND THERE YOU GO ❤ ❤ GOOD LUCK WITH THAT 🙂

IMA gonna show you guys how my hair looked like:

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Well that’s me xD I look good by chance 😀 Factually speaking I’m self-obsessed haha! Exhibit some love plissss ❤

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LET EM’ GO WHEN YOU’RE NOT EVEN READY TO DO THAT…

learn to move on, no matter what regardless of the fact that is there anyone to support you or not.

I’ve been dealing with a lot of synopsis like that when it comes to Family, Friends and my Well-wishers but that’s okay guys let em’ go if they don’t wanna stay in your life anymore. Its irony no? When it comes to this bit when you want your significant other to stay in your life but they factually like being ignored and not being adored! Who cares? I’d say I don’t if they don’t; and that’s how life happens and feelings change…

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Do love the ones who caliber your love, your respect and your loyalty because they’re your true well-wishers. It’s quite kooky and awful at the same moment when you don’t wanna leave the one you love the most but he/she don’t want to stay anymore so now it’s your turn to take that important step for your life to detoxify that person out of your life. What ya waiting for? C’monn take that initiative.

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You know what, honestly it’s profound to experience the atrocious parts even; it’ll help you to grow strongly even when you don’t feel that way, I promise you’ll feel better subsequently because gradually you’ll understand the good part about it as EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, RIGHT? Sometimes you just have to walk away and pray that you mean enough to someone that they reach out and pull you back into their life.

It’s that we get to know the true colors of the people which is quite real. Stop giving the same person different opportunities to disappoint you. Leaving your beloved ones can a big deal for you but it’ll show that you’re not like the stagnant water which stays at its place and gets the fungus on it but you’re like that flowing water which doesn’t stays at a single place but keeps moving on and on but against the norm. So yeah, let em’ go if they don’t wanna stay in your life anymore, at least you won’t be begging em’ to stay in your life so as to make you feel good about yourself. Gotcha?

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Don’t get too attached to the people, emotions and sceneries because all of em’ are temporary and you don’t need to take permanent decisions for em.

A few days back, I was going through a picture on instagram on which I saw an offensive comment for a girl and I felt so bad that how can a comment make us feel so bad about our identities isn’t it? That we start scorning ourselves for like no reason I mean why is that so? Why are we even giving the comments, the messages; the power to break our hearts? It’s scary that a like, a message or a comment can change our moods to a greater extent. It’s melancholic when we check our phones and find nothing which makes us feel way more bizzare and this means that we’re giving the power to other people to control us. I’d say pay attention to the things you’re naturally drawn to. You don’t need any love, comment or a text to make sure you’re being loved okay?

STICK WITH THE PEOPLE WHO PULL THE MAGIC OUT OF YOU AND NOT THE MADNESS!

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TREAT YOURSELF BETTER!

Hola Chicos!!! I’d love to seek your attention right over here. Well lemme tell you all I’m writing as an inspirational and as a motivational blogger so I’d be posting many of the blogs  and I’m so sorry hombre I’ve been latterly busy with a lot of poppycock and that is the only reason that I couldn’t post many of my blogs but I prognosticate that I’d be posting a lot of engrossing posts now as I’m on the loose these days so I’m sure that you guys are going to get a redeeming reception from my side…
Hunky-dory then let’s set about our present theme that I’m wholly aroused about.
What does that manifestly mean? Aren’t we all treating ourselves way too better? Or is it just ME who on the button think like in that way? Well I don’t know what it really is to treat myself better but I reckon that I surely can suggest some ideas in which we all can surely treat ourselves way too better. So let’s get started…

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Okay so here are THREE strategic and indispensible ideas about HOW TO TREAT YOURSELF BETTER.

GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK.
That’s how you can relax and can handle a lot of things properly and in a profound manner. So give yourself that break from work and from the things that stress you out obviously; apart from that I’d say love the YOU in YOU which is way more significant than any other thing out there. I know our jobs are way too important but I’d say give yourself a break at least once in a while when you’re literally stressed out and exhaust so that after being relaxed you can cope up with your work even in a much better manner and for sure it’ll help you out. WHAT SAY?

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STAY CENTERED.
How I actually stay centered is by walking. I know that must be very weird for some of you but I swear that this is the best way to stay centered and lemme tell you guys how it actually works…
Alright so manifestly when I walk out with just nobody else and just with my sole soul something wholly amazing just happen to me and it really blooms my mind. You guys might be thinking what it could be? So lemme tell you all when you walk with just nobody else and just with yourselves you guys are going to contemplate about different things that mean the world to you or if not that much important then I’d say you surely are going to think about that and then you’ll end up coming with the best solutions to your biggest problems and that is why walking is the best way to stay centered. So I’d love to prefer that you guys should walk everyday in order to stay centered.

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DO WHAT YOU LOVE.
This thing matters a lot at least for me and to a very great extent I’d say. I am surely in love with what I do and it doesn’t matter what other people think about that! So what IMA tryna say is do what you love and that implies to do things YOU love without thinking or procrastinating about what people are gonna think about you or about your character. Guys these things are now way too historic to think about people’s reaction about what are they gonna think about you and all so chill, nobody’s going to judge you or if they’re going to do that then just step out right away from there because there might be two possibilities:

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THAT PERSON IS JEALOUS ABOUT WHAT YOU DO
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THEY’RE THE ONES THAT CAN’T BE ONE LIKE YOU

So relax and do what you love; enjoy your youth as you’ll never be younger than you are at this very moment and let the people speak because no matter what they’re gonna do that.

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So these were the few ideas about how to treat yourselves better and I’m sure that this is gonna work out for every one of you. I think this is it for the present theme and for sure I’d be coming up with another interesting blog and till then BUENOS ADIOS.

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